The difference between terror and joy is skill! People spend lifetimes gaining skills in areas so they can have higher pay, apply less effort, enjoy more, learn and grow.
What if being joyful, relaxed or energized is accomplished through being skillful? As a collective we pay a lot of time, money and attention to learn our crafts.
A magician never relies on luck, neither should you.
Do you have skills in directing your attention on what you really want to focus on and controlling your mind? Do you have skills in yoga/ breath work and other modalities that bring health and a relaxed focus to whatever you are doing? Do you have skills in transforming fear to faith and hate to love?
These are skills worth honing that fulfill your life and the lives of those you love.